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School Superintendent’s ‘Racist and Sexist’ Text Messages Make Us Wonder What’s Wrong With People (VIDEO)

Penulis : Unknown on woensdag 25 september 2013 | 06:41

woensdag 25 september 2013

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by Adriana Velez 13 hours ago

coatesville senior high schoolIf everyone in your community could read your text messages, would they be horrified? The racist and sexist messages between school superintendent Richard Como and athletic director Jim Donato have rocked the community of Coatesville, Pennsylvania. Apparently the texts between these two men included graphic references to faculty and students. Just a few harmless, private jokes between two men? Not so much.

Copies of the messages between Como and Donato were given to the school board from an anonymous source. The Chester County District Attorney office discovered the messages when they were conducting an unrelated investigation of the district. Meanwhile, Como and Donato both resigned reportedly when they found out the board planned to fire them -- but the damage is already done.

So how bad were these text messages, anyway? Chester County District Attorney Tom Hogan says, "The text messages that we reviewed were of a shockingly racist nature. They looked like something from 1813, not 2013." Oof, that bad, huh? I'm glad I haven't found transcripts of those messages yet, though I'm sure it's just a matter of time before they're leaked. (Maybe it's already happened and I just don't know because I don't want to know ...)

Board President Neil Campbell issued a statement saying that the school board had moved as quickly as possible on the incident and were cooperating with the District Attorney. "The racist and sexist language expressed by the two men was sickening and obviously unacceptable," he said.

So now we're all in agreement that this was disgusting behavior, especially coming from adults who are supposedly leading school faculty and students. Wouldn't you expect more from them? This must come as a horrible shock to the families in the community. Or maybe not. About a third of the school community is black, and I bet they're unfortunately all too accustomed to racism coming from any and all sources.

Meanwhile, I can't help imagining (if these allegations are true) what this meeting of the minds between Como and Donato must have been like. At what point did they recognize they were racist, sexist kindred spirits and start letting the shit fly with each other? Do these people have radar for their type? Ugh, probably. At least everyone else seems to agree that their exchanges were wrong. Now everyone who works for the district has to do sensitivity training. But the two people who needed it most should have gotten that training a long time ago.

Are you surprised that two adults with leadership positions in a school district were exchanging offensive text messages?

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Adriana Velez ABOUT THE AUTHOR Adriana Velez

is a staff writer who dabbles in food, parenting, news, entertainment, molecular biology, and anything else that that pops into her head. She lives with her elementary school-aged son in Brooklyn, land of urban farms and artisan everything.  

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What's the First Thing Men Notice About Women? It May Not Be What You Think

Penulis : Unknown on vrijdag 23 augustus 2013 | 17:02

vrijdag 23 augustus 2013

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by Sasha Brown-Worsham 4 hours ago

eyesQuick! What's the first thing you think men notice about you? If you said boobs (like I would have), you would be wrong. According to a survey from Murine eye drops of over 1,000 men, the first thing men notice when meeting a woman is ... her eyes?!

OK, so that is a LITTLE suspicious coming from an eye drop company. But the reality is, it's probably not that far off. Men probably do look at our faces first. And, in fact, there is an order to how they take us in.

According to men I know, they DO look at our faces first, but that doesn't really mean much given they can completely take us ALL in in about 10 seconds. According to the survey, which ought to be taken with a grain of salt, here are the eight things men notice about women in descending order:

What do you think men notice first?

Image via Look Into My Eyes/Flickr

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Smooth skin is the eighth thing men notice about women. Is it free of bumps and abrasions? Does it look like butter? Then yes. He's turned on. Who could blame him, either? Smooth skin is pretty nice.

Sasha Brown-Worsham ABOUT THE AUTHOR Sasha Brown-Worsham

can't decide whether she is a mother, writer, or runner, but is usually all three at some point each day. She has written for dozens of print magazines, newspapers, and websites. She rarely ever writes on bathroom walls.

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What's the Deal With Beauty Oils? 6 Great Ones to Try

Penulis : Unknown on woensdag 7 augustus 2013 | 08:30

woensdag 7 augustus 2013

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by April Daniels Hussar 15 hours ago

beauty oilsWhen I first heard about "beauty oils", I'll confess I was more than a bit skeptical. I mean, doesn't it seem weird to put OIL on your face? I don't have super oily skin, but I do have that tricky t-zone area, and I tend to equate "oil" with "grease." Oh, how wrong I was! Beauty oils are really fabulous -- I've been trying a lot lately and I love them.

There are products for every skin type, and many beauty oils are multi-purpose. For your face, you can use them instead of moisturizer or before your moisturizer, and/or as a primer for a really smooth skin surface for foundation. Some beauty oils are also great for your body (as an ultra hydrating moisturizer or a bath oil), for your hands (great for cuticles!), and still others you can also use in your hair. Then of course there are some products targeted for very specific purposes. They can be pricey, but a little bit really goes a long way. Here are some of the best ones on the market ...

FOR FACE: L'Oreal beauty oilL’Oréal Paris Age Perfect Glow Renewal Facial Oil is made with a blend of eight lightweight, fast absorbing oils. It's made to soak in super fast, so it replenishes and restores dull, dry skin and gives you a more radiant, brighter look. ($24.99 at LorealParisUSA.com and drugstores)

Use it on your face and neck; alone or before mosturizer; and/or before you put on foundation (it gives your skin a smooth surface for makeup!).

FOR FACE: Seventh Generation just came out with an awesome line of skin boosting serums made with various high quality beauty oils. From hydration to firming, each blend is formulated to nourish and treat your skin without clogging pores. Fabulous! ($14.99 each at SeventhGeneration.com)

FOR CLEANSING: Erno Laszlo Phelityl Pre-Cleansing Oil is designed to penetrate your pores to dissolve impurities, so when you follow up with a cleanser, your skin is so fresh and clean. ($45 at Nordstrom)

FOR ALL OVER: CaudalieCaudalie Divine Oil can be used on your face, body, AND hair (use it on the tips for a great de-frizzer). It's made from an exceptional blend of oils (grape, hibiscus, sesame, and argan) combined with patented antioxidants. It smells AMAZING. You can also use it as a luxurious bath oil. ($49 for 3.4 oz, $32 for 1.7 oz at Us.Caudalie.com)

FOR BODY: L'Occitane Almond Firming and Softening Supple Skin Oil smells like heaven and makes your skin feel divine. Not only is it formulated to make your skin more supple, it's great for treating and preventing stretch marks. ($40 at Sephora)

FOR HAIR: got2b oil-licious is a great, really affordable line of beauty oil-based hair care products designed to combat frizz and really hydrate your hair. The "Calm and Shine" styling oil leaves a smooth, silky finish. The "Opulent Smooth" shampoo and conditioner are made with argan, white grape seed, and marula oils for detangling and shine. ($3.99 each at Walmart)  

Have you tried any great beauty oils?

April Daniels Hussar ABOUT THE AUTHOR April Daniels Hussar

is a California girl transplanted to the wilds of suburban New Jersey, and is a shoe-loving, book-obsessed writer and mama.

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Moms Matter Hangout: What's All the Fuss with the Royal Baby? (VIDEO)

Penulis : Unknown on woensdag 24 juli 2013 | 15:08

woensdag 24 juli 2013

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by Lindsay Ferrier 2 hours ago in News & Views

Moms Matter Google Hangout

America's got Royal Baby fever!

We just can't seem to get enough of Wills and Kate's new baby boy, and you know The Stir writers are on top of this important breaking news event.

If it's Royal Baby-related, we're all over it! Check out this week's Moms Matter Google Hangout, in which we discuss the carseat mishap, the long wait over a baby name, and how Kate Middleton is handling being the center of the world's attention at a time when she needs her privacy more than ever...

I'm pretty sure the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge watched our Moms Matter video as soon as it was posted on YouTube, because almost immediately afterward, they announced Royal Baby's name:

George Alexander Louis.

Darn. We were all hoping it would be Jaeden.Or perhaps Jayden. Or possibly Jaidunn. Even Jjadon would have worked for me.

By the way, has anyone noticed that his initials are GAL? Heh.

Anyway.

We wish the Royal Couple and their son the very best, and I think it's safe to say we all hope Kate and William will be left alone for a while to enjoy some private time with their new son. It's got to be tough going through such an emotional time in the public eye.

What do you think about Royal Baby fever?

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